At first, Olivia Wilde’s uncomfortably hilarious chamber piece The Invite plays like a double entendre, its titular, bumbling dinner invite gradually revealing itself to be a sly invitation to a more sensual, salacious group experience. But at its core, it’s really neither. Instead, Wilde’s film manifests an intimate, devastating invitation to long-avoided truths—at the festering wounds and repressed feelings embedded deep within a marriage that’s trapped in emotional, physical, and spiritual ennui.
A hysterical comedy of manners that slowly morphs into a marriage autopsy, The Invite unfolds as a crackling reminder of how an intimate single-location production can feel more emotionally and dramatically expansive than the loftiest prestige dramas or the grandest of studio epics.
A remake of Spanish comedy The People Upstairs, The Invite opens with hazy, fractured footage of better times and an Oscar Wilde quote about the incompatibility of love and matrimony. A fitting omen for a rocky marriage defined by both ceaseless bickering and non-communication.
Having arrived from work, Joe (Seth Rogan), a failed musician, discovers to much his chagrin that his wife Angela (Wilde) has invited their upstairs neighbours, Pína (Penelope Cruz) and Hawk (Edward Norton), for dinner at their spacious San Francisco apartment. Not up for hosting guests, Joe plans to confront the couple over the loud, animalistic sex they hear from upstairs every night—a cause for alarm for Angela, who is desperate to befriend them.
When the rug-obsessed Joe and therapist Pína arrive to greet their unprepared hosts, The Invite immediately engrosses us in a witty clash between raw emotions, uncomfortable truths, and forced decorum. As it pulls the cork on pent-up tension, Will McCormack and Rashida Jones’ screenplay unleashes a relentless procession of crafty wordplay, meticulous comedic timing, and endlessly quotable jabs in which everything that can go wrong does go wrong.
As Wilde’s film gingerly navigates precarious tonal turns, it becomes almost spellbinding to witness its characters do the same on a fraying tightrope between brutal honesty and kind insincerity. Though, as the foursome gradually let down their guards, the film’s convincing cavalcade of conversations come to painfully reflect how many of us avoid important discussions for most of our lives.
Yet, what begins as a modern analogue to Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf? suddenly transforms into a knee-slapping successor to Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice, when Hawk and Pina reveal that they regularly participate in orgies, and that the true purpose of their visit was to have impromptu sex with Joe and Angela. It’s a revelation that immediately ensnares the film in an enticing, titling energy—especially when the two couples ultimately decide to swap mates—but also one full of damning revelations that examine how partners frequently force one another to fit into unwanted moulds.
It’s a dramatic, if hysterical, shift buttressed by the innate chemistry between its four leads. Norton’s soft spoken but confident Hawk draws on his unsung comedic gifts, while Cruz’s sultry, Spanish drawl delivers several line readings that will undoubtedly in audiences’ heads rent-free. Wilde shines in the film’s most expressive role, effortlessly pivoting between distraught sadness and sensual glee, but it’s Rogan who often steals the limelight, with every delivery and inflection eliciting gut-busting hilarity—especially in a moment where he and Hawk toast their condoms.
Through its dense layers of comedic wit and marital strife, The Invite remains a visual feast. Armed with purposeful staging, striking lighting, and dynamic camerawork—in the form of patient pans and razor-sharp reflections—Wilde and company render confined apartment spaces into open fields of introspection, tension, and confrontation.
It all culminates in a deeply observant and cathartic conclusion that poses as many questions as it answers. In a cinematic landscape overflowing with visual effects and towering tentpoles, The Invite urges us to RSVP to a hilarious, heartbreaking conversation piece—one that not only exposes its characters’ insecurities, but our own.
The Invite releases in Select theatres July 3rd, nationwide July 10th.